Inspiration

I take inspiration all around, and see things often that inspire me to find out more about them, or cause me to wonder why I never noticed them in the first place. Almost daily, I am inspired to create, and, even more so, things that change my ideas about fashion. In the last few years, fashion (particularly alternative fashion) have become a passion of mine as I see more and more how creative people are and how beautiful it is to be different from everyone else. One thing I love about alternative fashion in particular is that not everyone is going to like it, but that's okay, because it's your art. Just as a painter paints on canvas, and a musician makes music, someone can create a work of art using his or her own appearance. It also celebrates that no matter what you look like, you can still be glamorous, creative, and lovely just by being unique. Of course everyone is absolutely beautiful, but it's more about how you feel inside. If I love what I wear and how I present myself, I will feel beautiful and confident. Here are some things that have made me feel inspired one way or another this week, in fashion or otherwise:


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**PS - If you like this one, you should take a look at the whole photoset here

Lately, I'm liking...

From the taobao shop Shirley Deer (shirleydeer.taobao.com)



I love this because it's elegant, not too childish, and winter-friendly. It would be a lovely snowy photo shoot choice. Gorgeous, gorgeous, gorgeous. It's priced at 486 yuan, which is a little over 78 USD. Not cheap by any means, but not priced any less than it is worth (especially when you consider its weight and that it IS a winter coat). My favourite thing about it: as a future teacher, I could still wear it - even when going to work! Score!

Have a blessed day!

Busy, busy...

My life has taken a 180 degree turn over the past few weeks! I went from sitting around at home watching Netflix all day to working overtime every week between two jobs. On top of that, hubby-to-be and I are in the process of finding an apartment for the fall. We're having to do this online since we can't make the trip down to Iowa! Although we won't be moving until August, a lot of the apartments in the area are already spoken for, so we're going to have to find one soon.
This coming weekend, we will be heading to Kansas to visit my family and get some things done for the wedding, including our wedding shower, which we're very excited for! We're getting married two months from today - the time has really flown by :)
Between working so much and trying to figure out the future, there hasn't been time for much else. The trip will be an awesome break!

Busy morning!

Well, two great things happened this morning: First, Patrick and I decided officially that we will be moving to Iowa in August, attending Iowa State University! Second, I got a job offer - which will help keep me busy until the move, and help us have the financial stability to get settled into a new place. I'm really excited about both of these things!
The job that I was offered is at a place called the Good Samaritan Boy's Ranch. It's a place where boys who have been removed from their homes for whatever reason (whether they have gotten into legal trouble or there are issues with the family) temporarily live, go to school, and receive the help that they need. I will be working on the night watch crew, meaning I'll stay up overnight in one of the dorms as a security measure. It will be an interesting job, and I am excited to get started and work at a non-profit organization!
As far as out decision to go to Iowa - we learned that I will receive in-state tuition since Patrick will be working at the school! That is such a blessing for us, as my potential tuition costs were the thing that was holding us back from accepting their offer. Thankfully everything worked out perfectly, and all my prayers from the last few months are getting answered :)

Decisions, decisions.

Now that Fiance and I have visited all the options for a potential grad school (and undergrad for me), we are finally at a point where we can make a decision. We are both leaning highly towards Iowa State University. However, we can't decide officially until we figure out a way to get around me paying out-of-state tuition. Both of us have been communicating with the school trying to figure everything out so we can make an official decision. I have sent in an application, but it won't be reviewed until the school has received my transcript. However, my school will not send out my transcript until I pay off the final $200 I owe to the school. After paying rent and some bills for this month, I decided today wasn't a great time to pay that off! Prayers that I can have my transcript sent soon. Just a short and sweet little update, because it's difficult to tell other about your future when you don't know anything about it yet :) Thanks for reading!

All Things Bright and Beautiful

Lately, I have been celebrating beauty. Looking around, I've seen the most beautiful things - of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, that's something I believe with all my heart. Some may look at a landscape of colorful trees in the fall and feel there is no greater beauty. Others may prefer to go to an art museum and look at oil paintings. A man may look at a woman and think there is nothing more beautiful in the world. All these things are beautiful, of course. But today, I want to give a glimpse of some things I find to be extraordinarily beautiful. Man-made or not, glory to God for creating such things and the people who make them.


Vincent Olinet
Pas encore mon histoire - installation view Wanderland, Tilburg, 2008
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Not much to this post, but just felt like sharing some pretty things with you.
Here's a quote to end on:

“Love beauty; it is the shadow of God on the universe.”
Gabriela Mistral

And a verse:

"He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end."
Ecclesiastes 3:11

As I'm getting further and further into my wedding planning, I am getting so excited to become Mrs. McVey! Today I am going to write about my fiance and how great he is, so for the un-romantic and cynical, you have been warned.

How We Met

At the beginning of my sophomore year of college, I was a music major. I was required to take an instrumental course (besides Piano, which I'd taken already). I had signed up to take the introductory guitar class with my roommate. It was a once-a-week class, and I ended up dropping it so I could take Opera instead. I only went to the class 3 or 4 times. Patrick was in the class, too. However, I wouldn't say I met him there - we never talked in Guitar class, but that was when we first became aware of one another's existence. I noticed him (what girl doesn't notice a cute guy in her class?) but didn't think much of it, because I didn't know the guy :) But then, a few days or weeks (hard to remember now) later, he added me as a friend on Facebook. A moment of honesty: I had to ask my roommate who he was. She had a class with him the previous semester, so she reminded me that he had been in Guitar class with us, so I accepted his friend request. He started "facebook chatting" me. At the time, I thought this was SO ridiculous! What a silly boy. We had some mutual friends, one of whom tried to set us up by inviting both to hang out at the same place at the same time, but Patrick just didn't talk to me! At some point, he actually asked me to go get coffee with him, and I said yes (sure, the facebook chatting was lame, but he was so cute! I couldn't turn him down!) so we went to a local coffee shop. I expected him to be a little shy, just because he hadn't spoken to me outside facebook... boy, was I wrong. We were there a few hours, and I barely had to contribute to the conversation! I can be a bit of an introvert, so I was happy that he was so talkative. After that, we started hanging out more often, going on walks, eating Dominoes Pizza, and watching movies. Through our conversations, he had learned that I was very protective over my heart and would not give it to any man who had not promised his heart to me. Unfair, but it was something I felt very strongly about. One night, Patrick pulled me aside and said something that has changed my entire life: He told me that he wanted to offer his heart to me, and to take my time and consider if I would like to offer mine to him as well. And I did take my time. Soon after this, I went on a trip to Guatemala and had NO communication with him for over 3 weeks. Even after I got home from Guatemala, I didn't see him for a few weeks, as it was Christmas break and we live a state away from each other. When I got back to school, we started hanging out a lot again, talking a lot about dating, but he knew I wanted to take things slowly. I'd never been anyone's "girlfriend" before. But he waited until I was ready, and when I was, I told him so.

My First Boyfriend

One night, I went with Patrick to his parents' house, where he was living at the time. We were going to eat dinner with his family and watch a movie. When it got later and his family started going to bed, he said he had something for me. He gave me a small piece of paper with a clue. Which led to another clue. And another. And another. I went all through his house finding these clues, some of which came with presents (because who doesn't love those?). The second to last clue led me to his bedroom, where his closet was filled with TONS of balloons. I was told to pop the balloons until I found the final clue (which wasn't really a clue at all). It simply said "Turn around." Patrick was standing behind me, and he said some of the sweetest things to me, and asked me to be his girlfriend. There was nothing that would have made me happier.



We're engaged now, of course, and I am so happy to be getting ready to marry this sweet, wonderful man, and I am so grateful that God led me to Patrick! That wedding and the lifetime that will follow couldn't come soon enough.